A 4-month group program to help you ditch queer imposter syndrome and create a life that celebrates every part of your beautiful queer self.

Queer Enough

Do you want to banish queer imposter syndrome, and have the most confident, connected queer life ever?

Do you want to stop feeling overwhelmed thinking “now what??” after finally come out after years of denial and homophobia/transphobia?

Do you struggle with 1am thought spirals thinking “am I a lesbian dealing with compulsory heterosexuality or a bisexual with internalized biphobia???” or “am I not femme or masc enough?”.

Do you want to find a community of queer people who actually get you (ie not gate-keepy, ableist, biphobic) to connect with about the grief/excitement/confusion, euphoria feelings of being a late bloomer?

Then you’re in the right place!

Queer Enough:

A 4-month group program (January 2025 to April 2025) to help you ditch the queer imposter syndrome. Feel joy in who you are. Have a community who “get it”. Create a life that actually celebrates every part of your beautiful queer self.

Queer Enough only runs once a year + limited spots are available!

*this program is not for cis men. Non-binary people, trans & cis women, and trans men are welcome.

How does Queer Enough work?

As a high touch 4 month program, it includes fourteen weekly x 1 hour online sessions on Tuesdays at 8-9pm EST (plus all replays sent to your email the next day) through January 2025-April 2025.

Each session is designed to help you tackle a different aspect of self-growth as a late bloomer and help you build confidence and queer community. This is through group discussions with other late bloomers, journaling, somatic & arts-based exercises and beyond!

These online sessions accompany eight bi-weekly recorded modules to watch/listen to at your own pace.

  • Dive into dismantling compulsory heterosexuality and unpacking its influence on your past experiences, so you can authentically embrace queer attraction, relationships, and self-understanding with pride and joy.

  • Embrace the concept of queer time, exploring how to honor your unique path as a late bloomer, reclaim missed milestones, and celebrate a liberating “second adolescence.”

  • Reflect on the impact of coming out later in life on family, friendships, and romantic connections, while building intentional, affirming relationships that nurture queer joy and authenticity.

    • 🌈 Get all your answers to questions like: What’s a girlypop masc? What’s the difference between bisexual and pansexual? How is queer different from gay? In breaking down the 101 on all things labels

    • 🌈 Get tips for finding your label or being unlabeled and tailored resources, books, and content creators for affirmation & building confidence

    • 🌈 Feel deeply affirmed that you don’t need to change who you are to fit into a label in order to date and be in the queer community

  • Unpack how cisnormative expectations may have shaped your relationship with gender, and explore new ways to express and affirm your identity within a supportive queer community.

  • Get all the tips and tools you need to go from overwhelmed baby gay —> confident queer by embracing YOUR AUTHENTIC SELF.

  • Learn how to create your own personal queer style - signalling, clothes, make-up, and exploration on pleasuring queer bodies!!!  

  • Get step-by-step tips on how to find aligned queer community - social media, IRL pages, how to approach people and make friends

Join Queer Enough

TIER 1 Queer Enough + 1:1 coaching: $300 USD/month x 6 ($1800 USD in full)

TIER 2 Queer Enough group only: $208 USD/month x 6 ($1250 in full)

  • TIER 1: Group + 1:1 Coaching

    ✔️ A high touch 4 month group program experience

    ✔️ 8 modules (recorded, video + audio available):

    - Unlearning compulsory heterosexuality

    - Queer time & second adolescence

    - Relationships (fam, dating, friendships)

    - What’s in a label?

    - Gender, I hardly know her!

    - Cultivating queer joy

    - Your queer style

    - Finding community

    ✔️ 14 x weekly community calls

    ✔️ The Gay Agenda - journal prompts, exercises (somatic, arts-based), and “challenge” invitations to put what you’re learning into PRACTICE in your life and reflect on your own history and needs

    ✔️ Access to 12 months membership in the F*ck Comphet Support Club - including the Discord for community conversation and advice sharing 24/7. Plus an exclusive Queer Enough Discord channel for connecting with program members.

    ✔️ Queer Enough Resource hub - Articles, podcasts, books, social media posts for you to dive deeper into the topics from the modules and connect with people who share your specific queer experiences

    8 bi-weekly 45 min 1:1 coaching sessionsthroughout the program for additional tailored support & resources

  • TIER 2: Group Only

    ✔️ A high touch 4 month group program experience

    ✔️ 8 modules (recorded, video + audio available):

    - Unlearning compulsory heterosexuality

    - Queer time & second adolescence

    - Relationships (fam, dating, friendships)

    - What’s in a label?

    - Gender, I hardly know her!

    - Cultivating queer joy

    - Your queer style

    - Finding community

    ✔️ 14 x weekly community calls

    ✔️ The Gay Agenda - journal prompts, exercises (somatic, arts-based), and “challenge” invitations to put what you’re learning into PRACTICE in your life and reflect on your own history and needs

    ✔️ Access to 12 months membership in the F*ck Comphet Support Club - including the Discord for community conversation and advice sharing 24/7. Plus an exclusive Queer Enough Discord channel for connecting with program members.

    ✔️ Queer Enough Resource hub - Articles, podcasts, books, social media posts for you to dive deeper into the topics from the modules and connect with people who share your specific queer experiences

Join Now

TIER 1 Queer Enough + 1:1 coaching: $300 USD/month x 6 ($1800 USD in full)

TIER 2 Queer Enough group only: $208 USD/month x 6 ($1250 in full)

This was an amazing experience and I am so, so grateful that I participated in the program. Life looks SO DIFFERENT from six months ago.

— Rachel, previous program client

  • What the girls, gays, and theys are saying...

    The program completely shifted my perspective!

    I don't think I quite realized how awesome life gets when I get to be my authentic self, prioritize my own needs, and find queer community and joy! This program provided me with a foundation to question a lot of things that didn't feel right and to decide for myself how I want to approach sex, dating, and relationships.

    - Previous client

  • Eva did an amazing job mixing emotional support with skill development and the more “fun” parts of exploring your sexuality. I laughed. I cried. I felt so seen. I made friends in the group chat !!! I looked forward to our call every week and what I learned continues to come into practice even months later!!!

    - Erika, Previous client

  • I’m feeling sappy today but I just wanted to say how grateful I am for this space. There aren’t really any queer spaces where I am, and this online queer space has made me feel so welcomed and validated in who I am. You all are so wonderful and I love you all <3

    -Current client

  • My experience with Eva was one that I wished would never end! If you're looking for a sign to demonstrate willingness through tenderness, vulnerability, self-love, and - THIS IS IT!

    - Mon, Previous client

  • I loved how low-key, real, human, gentle and helpful this was. There was a lot of recognition in myself as well. It was a relieve and an eye opener both at the same time.

    - Previous client

  • It was not only informative, but profound in honesty and vulnerability. I reflected on so many things I subconsciously over analyze, or don't ever acknowledge at all. It was a breath of fresh air to speak and listen so candidly without judgement, and to learn without fear.

    - Workshop attendee

  • My biggest "aha" moment was that setting boundaries within myself as well as with others will be the biggest key in figuring out my wants and needs as well as that it is ok to forge my own path and not follow society's rules.

    - Previous client

  • The biggest takeaways for me: (1) there are lots of awesome lesbian, non-binary, neurodivergent, and nerdy people in the world and I can feel comfortable owning all of that! This led me to be more outgoing even outside APP, and I now have a (mostly) queer D&D group and friends outside the program as well who have supported me through the last few months

    -Rachel, previous client

Queer Enough is the perfect queer confidence & self-love program for you if…

🌈 You’re a late bloomer, non-binary, questioning, neurodivergent, sw-er, queer, sapphic, and/or trans person!

🌈 You are beyond ready to move beyond the shame, queerphobia, comphet that you grew up in for 20, 30, 40+ years and actually start living for YOU!

🌈 You want to a dreamy queer friend group, the confidence to step into a new queer space (without the doubts & anxieties taking over), and a deep feeling of Pride and self-loving for who you are!

SO I GUESS IT’S ABOUT TIME I INTRODUCE MYSELF, HUH?

Hi! 👋 I'm Eva Bloom! I'm a non-binary lesbian and late bloomer coach!

I’m a late bloomer queer myself! Comphet aka compulsory heterosexuality had me in the closet for a loooong time, founding my High School’s GSA and having a FFF threesome while thinking I was still straight???

The time and space for reflection over the pandemic (plus lesbian Tik Tok, of course!) finally helped me come out as a lesbian and non-binary in 2021. 

From there, I’ve been inspired to channel my sex educator training (Masters of Science on the social psychology of sexuality) into helping late blooming queer, trans, non-binary, and questioning people build confidence, queer joy, and have amazing sex!

I know queer imposter syndrome first hand, and how overwhelming it can be to take the leap to explore your queerness. It’s incredibly brave to step outside what you were taught your whole life and what is the “norm” when it comes to sex and relationships.

I’ve worked with 100+ late bloomers, and I know that power of creating a life that honours ALL parts of you is life-changing.

 

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)

  • Queer Enough is for people who are tired of waiting around for queer confidence and want to stop doubting if they are Queer Enough NOW!

    Queer Enough is a tailored program designed to get you from self-doubt —> confidence & vibrant queer life in 4 months in 2025. A series of modules specifically made to tackle different aspects of the late bloomer journey and build upon each other, exercises and journal prompts, and lots of community time!

    The late bloomers club is a slow burn! If you want some extra queer community in your life, and want to see your fellow late bloomers once a month, that’s the vibe.

    If you’re ready to get more queer and powerful this Jan-April 2025, Queer Enough is for you!

  • Queer Enough is a great fit if you’re looking for support specifically on your late bloomer journey! Educational modules, accountability, a support group, and deep transformation in a shorter period of time.

    Because I am not a social worker or licensed therapist, so I cannot provide tailored personal support around working through trauma (ie sexual violence trauma, trauma around coming out). This program is a great compliment to therapy and in providing knowledge and a supportive community!

  • There are two tier options for Queer Enough!

    TIER 1 Queer Enough + 1:1 coaching is $300 USD/month x 6 ($1800 USD in full).

    TIER 2 Queer Enough group only is $208 USD/month x 6 ($1250 in full).

  • Yes! There is no requirement to be out, know your specific queer label, or have all the answers. This program is actually especially for people who still have questions!

    It’s for questioning, not straight, closeted, baby queer/gay, late bloomers, lesbian, bisexual/pansexual, sapphic, queer people! Non-binary people, trans & cis women!

    Regardless of if you’re in a relationship or not, and what gender your partner is!

  • Queer Enough includes 14 weekly 1hr community calls, plus 20-30min bi-weekly pre-recorded modules.

    I’d recommend Queer Enough if you’re ready to dedicate around 1-2hr/week to your queer confidence and growth!

  • Life happens and it’s 4 months of weekly calls - I don’t expect a flawless attendance record for you to join the program!

    That being said - what you put in = what you get out! Queer Enough is rooted in the support of a community. If you’re not able to commit to regular calls, then this isn’t the program for you.

    The calls are Tuesdays 8-9pm EST from January-April 2025. So if your timezone doesn’t fit this schedule, I’d recommend grabbing one of my mini-course webinar packages instead.

  • Members are typically between the ages of 30-40 (some folks in their 20s too)!

    What unites all members is their dedication to transforming their lives & forging confidence in their queerness in 2025. Most all members identify as “late bloomers” in some way, and what that means to them is personal!

    (Plus everyone in Queer Enough is super sweet and welcoming and largely pretty nerdy. TLDR, we’re delightful af).

  • Yes! "Coming out" and our queer journeys aren't linear.

    No matter how long you've know you're not straight, you're welcome to join if you want a space to bust queer imposter syndrome and want support on creating your most queer joy-filled life!

  • Queer Enough is my most high touch intensive program that I offer! That’s why I only run it once a year with limited spots! So you get alll the support and attention and can dive deep into community and learning!

    ✔️ A high touch 4 month group program experience

    ✔️ 8 modules (recorded, video + audio available):

    • Unlearning compulsory heterosexuality

    • Queer time & second adolescence

    • Relationships (fam, dating, friendships)

    • What’s in a label?

    • Gender, I hardly know her!

    • Cultivating queer joy

    • Your queer style

    • Finding community

    ✔️ 14 x weekly community calls

    ✔️ The Gay Agenda - journal prompts, exercises (somatic, arts-based), and “challenge” invitations to put what you’re learning into PRACTICE in your life and reflect on your own history and needs

    ✔️ Access to 4 months membership in the F*ck Comphet Support Club - including the Discord for community conversation and advice sharing 24/7. Plus an exclusive Queer Enough Discord channel for connecting with program members.

    ✔️ Queer Enough Resource hub - Articles, podcasts, books, social media posts for you to dive deeper into the topics from the modules and connect with people who share your specific queer experiences

  • Yes! This 4 month live program is for all queer, sapphic, questioning babes! We'll be exploring how comphet impacts EVERYONE (bi, lesbian, queer etc.), talking about internalized biphobia and lesbophobia, and sharing tips for cultivating for queer joy and confidence no matter the gender of your partner!

With the amount of time you spent not living authentically, isn’t it time you started living as your FULL SELF?

You deserve to feel grounded, self-compassionate, and confident.

To feel excited about walking into a new queer space, to walk into a new queer space and feel CERTAIN you belong there and can have fun and make friends.

You deserve to feel self-loving and pride.

To feel that your queerness is a beautiful, powerful thing that enriches your life and everyone around you.

You deserve to feel connected and seen.

To feel that you are not alone in your experiences, to feel like other people deeply understand your journey and celebrate you along the way.

You can feel confident in your queerness (I see it all the time)

  • Stop going to Google for answers and get clarity on the root cause of your self doubt, so you can heal around queer shame.

  • Ditch the late night doom scrolling thinking “I could fit into the queer community if I just changed myself to be like THAT” and embrace your unique queerness (YES - trans, non-binary, fat, disabled, chronically ill, sw-er, neurodivergent, bi/pan and with a husband ALL OF YOU!).

  • Release the belief that it’s “too late” to claim your queerness, and build a life that is vibrant and celebrates ALL of you today.

  • Leave behind the questioning, confusion, guessing, and gain an understanding of your labels, who “your people” are in the queer community, your queer style, and beyond.

Queer Enough includes:

💻 🎧 Bi-weekly modules

(8 modules, up to 45 mins long)

This modules

listen to it throughout the week at your own pace (video + audio formats)

🫂👋 Weekly community calls

Weekly calls -

group discussions, connecting with fellow late bloomers, building community + friendship + healing TOGETHER

INTEGRATION! Doing hw together, journaling, small break-out rooms on request, access to 1:1 coaching and specialized advice and support in Q&A from Eva

📓🖌️Journal prompts and exercises

Journaling prompts, exercises (somatic, arts-based etc.) accompanying the 8 module topics, to dive deeper.

📚🎦 Resource Hub

Accompanying each bi-weekly lesson —> articles, podcasts, books, videos, movies

Including: Eva’s Erotica Guide (30+ pages), Late Bloomer book guide (15+ pages)

🌈 Access to F*ck Comphet Support Club (including Discord)

Free 12 month membership to F*ck Comphet Support Club Discord + private Queer Enough channel ($120 USD value)